We use this word love so much that we might never really stop to define it. When we do, we can find that what we mean by it and what God means are two very different things. Not only do the definitions differ, but the outcomes differ also. That is exactly what this chapter shows us - the  devastating consequences of getting this word wrong, as illustrated in the life of Amnon. When we set it beside the life of the Lord Jesus, the contrast could not be more striking.