You're Doing it Wrong with Wes and Sarah

#2 You're Doing it Wrong with Wes and Sarah

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Have you ever felt like you're doing everything wrong in your relationship? You're not alone. In this candid conversation, we explore the ups and downs of marriage, communication, and personal growth.

We dive into the concept of being "yoked together" in a relationship and how it impacts our interactions. Just like oxen pulling a load, partners in a relationship can sometimes pull unevenly, leading to unexpected challenges.

Key takeaways from our discussion:

  • The power of focusing on daily wins to boost positivity and self-esteem
  • Understanding the dynamics of being "yoked together" in a relationship
  • The importance of honest communication and listening to understand
  • How small misunderstandings can lead to bigger relationship issues
  • Strategies for continuous learning and growth within a long-term partnership

    • We share personal anecdotes about miscommunications over ice cream and cereal, highlighting how even small interactions can reveal deeper relationship dynamics. These stories illustrate the importance of being honest, vulnerable, and open to learning about your partner.

    Relationship insights you'll gain:

    • • How to avoid falling into parent-child dynamics in your partnership
    • • The impact of assumptions and expectations on communication
    • • Techniques for expressing your needs and desires more effectively
    • • Ways to keep learning and growing together, even after years of marriage

      • We also discuss the choice we have in how we respond to our partner and the power of conscious, active decision-making in relationships. By sharing our experiences, we hope to inspire you to approach your own relationships with renewed curiosity and compassion.

      Remember, there's no "right" way to do relationships – it's all about finding what works for you and your partner. So join us as we navigate the messy, beautiful journey of love and partnership together.

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      You're Doing it Wrong with Wes and SarahBy Wes and Sarah Verhoef