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20: 3 Ways To Avoid A Situationship


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Define a situationship: Less than a relationship, but more than a casual encounter or booty call, a situationship refers to a romantic relationship that is and remains, undefined. "A situationship is that space between a committed relationship and something that is more than a friendship."

 

1.) Declare Expectation

  1. If you want a relationship say it

  2. Don't leave it up to another person to define what it is

  3. Don't assume (if you didn't say, it didn't happen)

  4. Be specific

  5. Don't settle for what is given

  6. You're still in charge (I was the type to pour into someone)

  7. Red flags (He's says looking for something serious, watch his actions say otherwise)

 

2.) Boundaries

  1. Give yourself a personal deadline if after 6 months it goes nowhere. You got an answer. You are single. 

  2. Is sex on the table or not. This is your choice. 

  3. Sex does come with emotions depending on who you where you are in life. (You can change your mind at any time)

  4. (Case of the EX) This is an easy space to fall into old patterns because things are familiar

3.) How To Follow Through

  1. Limit the access to you (includes texting back right away)

  2. Don't put your eggs all in one basket

  3. Back what up what you say

 

At the end of the day, you're still single until something is established. When a man wants you, you'll know because he makes it absolutely clear.

 

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