This conversation addresses the issues of burning emotional bridges and ways to either extinguish the flames or make the decision to let the bridge burn.  We all, at some point,  have either burned someone or have been burned  by others  in our lives.  Either way,  there is emotional pain, but when the pain is  associated with someone inconsiderate of your feelings,  a negative flame gets lit,  and it is some times best to let whatever there was to just burn away and keep it moving.  This is a personal experience that I recently went through and I wanted to share this scenario with others whom may have experience a similar situation.