Our detachment from our soul purpose and attachment to feeling like we need to fit in can leads us down a path that is not aligned with who we are, and can have us looking at the wrong people for support and kindness.  It's hard to tell who is the best for you in your journey of life, and it takes time, but the one thing you will realize as you start re-aligning with who you really are is that once you find out where you belong in your own life, everything else will fall into place and the people meant to support you through your journey will be there as well.