The Art of Approach Podcast

#20 - Meeting 'organically', what's wrong with mainstream dating advice, oversharing early on


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Hey all. The audio on this episode is a little rough but there's lots of good stuff regardless. Listen through to the end!


In this episode we cover various topics related to dating and meeting new people, discussing the challenges of gaining attention and the importance of authenticity. We debate the fine line between oversharing and being too reserved. Our conversation also touches on maintaining an abundance mindset and accepting one's current state in the dating journey. We share advice on approaching women and emphasize the importance of vulnerability in building connections.

We conclude by recounting a recent experience at a meat market where the nervousness of approaching two women together was palpable. We also delve into the concept of cold approaching, the complexities of gauging interest in such situations, and the pitfalls of inorganic interactions. We stress the importance of finding someone who appreciates the approach process.

The episode wraps up with our commitment to a daily practice of approaching one new person in a non-romantic way to enhance our social skills, reflecting our continuous efforts to improve and adapt in the realm of social interactions and dating.

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The Art of Approach PodcastBy Tim Bray and Will Mulvaney