In this wildly entertaining and painfully accurate episode, I’m joined by Karoline @karolinelietzen to spiral through dating icks, chaotic chemistry, and the psychology behind why some men obsess until they f*ck and run.

We cover:

• Our worst (and most unhinged) dating icks

• The “perfect level of incompatibility” that keeps you hooked

• Avoidant flirters, anxious chasers & the intimacy panic loop

• What it really means to be the “what if girl”

• Post-sex shutdowns & men who love to chase

• Attachment styles and trauma responses

• How to get out of the cycle without closing your heart

This one’s part confessional, part masterclass. We’re calling ourselves out, but also handing you the map to stop confusing activation with attraction. Listen ‘til the end for the actual lesson in emotional safety and secure love.

🔗 Connect With Us

Follow Karoline on Instagram: @karolinelietzen
Come spiral with me on IG: @madelynfreya

Tag us in your icks, your breakthroughs, or that one avoidant man this episode made you think of. We’ll be watching 🕷️