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Sometimes the bottom drops out and all we can do as move forward from that point on.

Not matter what, a positive outlook in tough times can serve you well.

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2021 sucks, now what?

Hi I'm Brian Pombo, welcome back to Brian J. Pombo Live.

For a lot of people right now 2021 isn't what they wanted it to be and if you're one of those people, I can tell you one thing…I don't have any answers that are directly going to help you with this.

But hopefully we can start a conversation over it.

Hopefully it can be helpful now that there's two types of people that be watching this one. you're rolling through 2021, with all of its highs and lows and everything that's crazy about it.

And you're surviving your fight, you find a way to be able to make it work.

Things actually, things might even be going well for you. That's one person.

And if you're that person, great, keep going keep doing what you're doing. If you're the other person who's dealing with all this, seeing all this and can't quite find how to get around it.

There's only a few things that I could start to recommend. But it really takes change your perspective, because I know where you're coming from. Because I've been in that position before where it's like, where do you go, when everything seems so drab and dreary. It just doesn't seem like anything could possibly happen that can go good.

It's a couple places I go to First off, and it's going to be very similar to a video we did not long ago, a conversation we had about headaches.

How do you get over that type of thing. And really the first, the first main thing I do when it comes to any type of ongoing depression, that seems to be controlled by outside forces.

One thing I know for sure, which is why I've been able to keep from falling into it too deeply for with these things is that no outside source has control over your outlook. You can allow it to have control and make it feel like it has control.

But they don't really have any control whatsoever over your outlook, you have the ability to be able to control that. Here's what I mean, it's a great book out there, I recommend you get it if you're not a good reader, go and get the audio book version of it is, Man's Search for Meaning by Viktor Frankl.

Go grab that book, what what's the book about the book is about a guy that was working his way through psychology and the the all the concepts behind psychology, it was really big, then this was back in the 1930s and was figuring a lot of this stuff out.

Then all of a sudden, you had the holocaust happen and World War Two and everything that happened around that period of time, and found himself in a concentration camp.

And going through all the things that were happening then, and how he dealt with it and how he was able to keep perspective, in the worst possible scenario, having your entire family stripped apart.

I think most if not all of them, died completely dead. And at that point, he wasn't even sure whether they were alive or not. But in most cases, he knew they were probably dead. And but being completely stripped from your kids from your wife.

And really having nothing left. Nothing. You have no ownership of anything.