Reflection on episode: Want to systematically alter the way you think about parenting? This episode left deep impressions on both Joe and Ben and offered a new perspective on our words and actions as parents. Yes, Jonathan Land is a pastor, however his deep understanding of the human condition is profound. This is a top episode for a reason!

Highlights from the episode:

Pre-concieved expectations vs. Reality of Fatherhood

"You are walking around with the imprints of your father or father-figure, good or bad."

Purpose of a Father

"You only grow when you know you are free to fail and you are still on the team"

Jonathan's story on his oldest daughter's courage to stand up to him.

"Invoke the Rule" = create opportunities for people to be courageous without an angry response.

Do not let your children leave your household with an empty cup because someone will fill it in your place.

Find out more about Jonathan and Connection Church at http://siouxfallsconnection.com/