Young adult society, especially women, are rejecting the superficial and narcissistic culture that prioritises attention, fuelling female insecurity. Constant validation from online social media is exhausting. Men find it entertaining but don't value it as much. True self-esteem should come from within, not seeking external validation. Claiming to be a "ten" may empower some but ignores the struggles of insecure individuals. This mindset confuses self-worth and relationships. Open conversations about insecurities are vital, not dismissal. Supportive measures are needed to address these issues for progressing together.