Many women notice their anxiety increasing during perimenopause and menopause — and a nightly glass of wine can feel like the easiest way to calm the nervous system.

But what if that coping strategy is actually making things worse?

In this episode of Hot & Healthy Menopause, Nicole explores the surprising link between anxiety, alcohol, hormonal changes, and bone health — and why the "wine to unwind" habit can accelerate osteoporosis risk in midlife women.

During menopause, fluctuating estrogen affects key brain chemicals including serotonin, dopamine and GABA, which regulate mood and stress. Alcohol may provide short-term relief, but it increases cortisol, disrupts sleep, worsens anxiety the following day, and interferes with calcium absorption and bone rebuilding.

Over time, this combination of stress hormones, alcohol, and declining estrogen can weaken bones, particularly in the lumbar spine and hips — the areas most vulnerable to osteoporotic fractures.

Nicole shares the science behind what's happening in the menopausal brain and body, why alcohol can intensify anxiety, and the practical steps women can take to restore calm, protect bone health, and feel like themselves again.

In this episode you'll learn:

• Why anxiety often increases during perimenopause and menopause • How hormonal changes affect brain chemistry and emotional regulation • Why alcohol worsens anxiety and sleep disruption • The link between cortisol, menopause, and bone loss • Why osteoporosis risk rises in midlife women • Healthier ways to calm the nervous system and support bone strength