Homesteading is often celebrated as a path toward doing everything yourself. But what if that very mindset is what’s wearing you down? Today, let’s talk about redefining self-sufficiency and how true sustainability grows in the soil of community.

In this heartfelt episode, I’m unpacking why I’ve grown uncomfortable with the term “self-sufficiency”—not because the goal is wrong, but because the mindset can sometimes lead us toward isolation and burnout. From my upbringing in a family-style compound community to my current homestead life, I’ve seen both sides. We’ll talk about the warning signs of burnout, how to ask for help without guilt, and practical ways to build organic, local community around you. If you’ve ever felt like you have to do it all to “count” as a real homesteader, this conversation will challenge and encourage you. We were never meant to do this alone.

Main Themes/Topics Covered:

Why “self-sufficiency” often gets misunderstood—and how to reframe it

Personal stories from growing up in community and what that taught me

Warning signs of burnout from doing too much on your own

Practical ways to ask for help and start building real-life homesteading friendships

Creative community ideas: bartering, workday swaps, tool libraries, and more

Mindset shifts like: “Community makes the work lighter and the joy deeper”

Tell me about a moment when community made all the difference in your homesteading journey. Email me at [email protected]—I’d be honored to hear your story.

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