Life Be Lifing

21: How To Date Yourself


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This may sound crazy, but dating yourself can be a good thing. Years ago I made a list of ideas and places I eventually wanted to do on future dates. After my dating prospects dried up I just started taking myself places solo dolo and loved it.

At first, I felt a little awkward but eventually became second nature. So this week I’m sharing all you need to know about dating yourself.

 

1.) Find Your Confidence
  • Say affirmations to yourself in the mirror ( Ex: I am beautiful. I am growing. I am enough)

  • Make the decision

  • Do it afraid even if you are

  • Practice makes perfect

 

2.) Make a List (Places & Things)
  • Write down all the things you've wanted to do that you've placed on the back burner

  • Go to that restaurant alone

  • Go to that art gallery

  • Take the cooking class

  • Go apple picking

  • Take that trip you always wanted to take alone

     

3.) More Approachable
  • Friends can be blockers

  • Easier to flirt and meet someone when you’re alone

     

4.) Treat Yourself
  • Teach people how you treat you

  • This is how you set the standard

  • Send yourself flowers/cards/chocolate

  • Draw yourself a bath

  • A good man will take note and then try to do those things for you or with you

  • He pays attention

  • Is it high maintenance if you're the one doing the maintaining?

     

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