Stop People Pleasing

#21: Transforming Resentment with Lauren Ammon


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HEADS UP! - BOUNDARIES COURSE COMING

I am in the process of creating a course on setting better boundaries. At the moment I want your feedback. Here are the problems that I see block empaths from creating boundaries. Do these resonate with you? Give me your feedback by emailing me info {at} theshiftinside.com or join the SPP Facebook group (link below)

#1 I really wish I could stand up for myself, but I don’t know how

 

#2 It would be difficult to set boundaries with X, because s/he has a hard life and they really need me. How could I do that to them? 

 

#3 Setting boundaries equals creating massive conflict, which scares me

 

#4 I am resentful that people do not give me the time and attention I give them - why should I have to set a boundary? 

 

#5 I feel too overwhelmed to do this work, and end up stuck giving too much energy away. It’s catch 22.

 

#6 I am so hurt by how narcissists and energy vampires treat me, it’s kind of paralysing. Catch 22 - nothing changes.

 

#7 I can’t deal with the negative comeback I would get if I did set boundaries.

 

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Lauren Amman Interview

In this interview, coach and ex-people pleaser Lauren Ammon shares about

*How her entire previous career – HR - was born out of people pleasing

*How her empath nature led to overwork

*How she changed to living life on her own terms

*Taking responsibility for the way she was showing up with others

*Her fears about changing careers

 

RESOURCES

Connect with Lauren Ammon

https://www.laurenammon.com/

https://www.linkedin.com/in/laurenammon/

 

Join The Stop People Pleasing Facebook group

https://www.facebook.com/groups/stoppeoplepleasingtribe

 

Lifesaver 10 download

https://www.theshiftinside.com/lifesaver/

 

Email

Info @theshiftinside.com

 

 

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