In this episode, Derrick and Zac unpack the emotional cost of changing yourself just to feel chosen. From childhood comparisons to chasing love through self-abandonment, they reflect on their personal experiences of trying to prove their worth in relationships. Together, they explore why so many of us feel the need to perform for love—and how true connection can only come when we choose ourselves first. If you’ve ever felt like you had to earn love by being someone you’re not, this conversation is for you.