"Mommy, can I help?" Those four words can spark instant panic when you're in the middle of your creative work. Do you say yes and risk things getting messy? Or say no and feel guilty? This week while prepping boxes for a sip and stitch event, Kathleen's kids wanted to help—and she had to make a choice.

In this heartfelt episode, Kathleen shares what happened when she said yes to crooked stickers and tiny fingerprints, and explores the beautiful tension between creating and mothering. This isn't about getting it perfect—it's about finding grace in the mess and understanding what your kids are really learning when they see you work.

If you've ever felt torn between protecting your creative time and including your kids, this conversation will help you navigate both without the guilt.

You'll hear about:

• The real tension between creating and mothering—and why it's not a problem to solve
• When to say yes to little helpers and how to set them up for success (without losing your mind)
• When it's actually okay to protect your creative time—and how to do it without guilt
• Win-win strategies that honor both your work and your kids' desire to be involved
• What your children are really learning when they watch you create (it's bigger than you think)
• Age-specific tips for including kids from toddlers to teens
• A message for the mama who's struggling to balance it all

Takeaway: Your kids don't need you to choose between being their mom and being yourself. The tension you feel isn't failure—it's proof you're honoring both parts of who you are. Some days your kids get more of you, some days your work does, and some days you find beautiful middle ground. All of those days are okay.

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