That hurt my feelings. That was so offensive! 

Sound familiar?

Instead of using victim language, getting angry, shutting down, or putting other down . . . 

Try asking yourself why someone not agreeing with you, or validating your feelings makes you feel that way. 

Is it pride, insecurity or fear?

1 Corinthians 13:12-13

For now we see in a mirror dimly, but then face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I have been fully known. 13 So now faith, hope, and love abide, these three; but the greatest of these is love.