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Susie joins Rachel for a deeply unwell debate about whether you should be friends with your ex, whether situationships are just mutual delusion, and why getting cheated on might actually be… a little fun. They unpack emotional power dynamics, blocking someone but secretly wanting them to stalk you, forgiving men too easily, and the toxic thrill of knowing you could ruin his next relationship (but choosing not to, because you’re “a good person”).
They spiral into forehead kisses in casual situationships (illegal), commitment issues disguised as kindness, why busy is hot but sweet isn’t, and how being a comedian might be the ultimate cock block. Are they secure? Avoidant? Anxious? Both? Neither? They don’t know — but they are hot, healing, and absolutely not over it.
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By Rachel YuSusie joins Rachel for a deeply unwell debate about whether you should be friends with your ex, whether situationships are just mutual delusion, and why getting cheated on might actually be… a little fun. They unpack emotional power dynamics, blocking someone but secretly wanting them to stalk you, forgiving men too easily, and the toxic thrill of knowing you could ruin his next relationship (but choosing not to, because you’re “a good person”).
They spiral into forehead kisses in casual situationships (illegal), commitment issues disguised as kindness, why busy is hot but sweet isn’t, and how being a comedian might be the ultimate cock block. Are they secure? Avoidant? Anxious? Both? Neither? They don’t know — but they are hot, healing, and absolutely not over it.
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Follow the host Rachel Yu on Instagram, YouTube, and TikTok
Follow Susan Cavalcanti on Instagram
Follow the show on Instagram, YouTube and TikTok