Sometimes, without realizing, one or both of a  couple is harming the marriage relationship.  Often, they think that "If just my spouse would change."  And then with a bit more introspection, they think, "Can it be me who is ruining our marriage?"  

Devora Krasnianski of Adai Ad interviews David Kohn, LCSW, CASAC about this topic: "Can it be me who is ruining our marriage?"  A frank and honest discussion about what people may be doing that harms their marriage. And what first steps they can do to improve the situation.