In his episode I discuss the task of "coming out" to friends and family and approach it as the privilege of being invited in. 
People do not have to come out, as it defers to this idea that heteronormativity and heterosexuality is the default in sexual orientation, gender identity, gender expression, and relationships.  However, if people choose to come out, let's be soft places for them to land.

Resources:

• Lesbian MasterDoc
• The Man Enough Podcast with Alok Vaid-Menon
• Dr. Angela Davis at Black Queer Town Hall
• Dr. Angela Davis and Women's Liberation
• Dr. Kim Tallbear
• Dr. Kim Tallbear on Moving Beyond Settler Sexualities