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2205 Is Your Child Striving to Achieve a Label?
Labels have a way of crushing who we are. Yet, at the same time, labels are something we chase. Is your child striving to achieve a label?
Labels give you a sense of belonging, feeling welcomed, and worthy. Everyone desires to be loved. It's one of our basic fundamental needs.
Desire to be supported and encourage by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. http://bit.ly/WomenofIMPACT
Look at our children. Our younger generations are raised from the time of conception to meet and/or exceed expectations.
- Weight gain of mom
- Movement within the womb
- Growth chart infancy to at least two years old
- Teething
- First words
- Crawling and walking
- Reading
- Preschool (yes or no)
- Sports
- Grades
- Driver's License
- Varsity and JV Teams (Teams A, B, & C)
- Valedictorian & Salutatorian
- Ivy League vs University vs Community College
- Dating and Marriage
Strides are made to be the best at the beginning. We want our children in the highest percentile, playing on varsity, and attending one of the most sought after colleges.
Now I understand how some of this stuff is most certainly vital when it comes to living.
But most of what we look at is pure fluff.
What if you stripped all of this stuff away from your child (besides the health)?
Would you know what to do as their parent?
This is where it gets real! We place our own expectations on our kids, not on purpose, but it just happens.
However, this is where our children begin to learn that labels (better known as placements, report cards, achievements, successes, trophies, awards, failures, and accolades) either help them or push them back.
Instead of allowing labels to define the purpose, direction, and journey of your child, create a "garden" of truth.
The K.I.S.S. ~ Create a "garden" of truth!This can be very challenging, but in all honesty, it doesn't have to be.
- LISTEN. You are called to pay attention to your child. And I'm here to tell you that most parents are not intentionally listening. Parents can get stuck in their own agendas. Your child needs to be heard. So listen!
- COMMIT. How much are you committed to your child and what they are in need of?
- PRESENCE. If your child is going to trust you, you must be present. And not when it's convenient for you. But when they are available.
- MULTIPLY. Take was is truth for your child and multiple their strengths. Of course, he/she can know his/her weaknesses. But it's more about walking in the God-given gifts and trained talents.
- VISION. Vision is commonly set for your own personal and professional life. Have you ever given thought to a vision for your family?
Don't push your child just because you are the parent. Part of being a parent is in the discovery. Enjoy each stage and don't rush what you can't control.
Life is precious. Be aware of what matters most; your child.
"Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!"
#ConfessionsOfAnUpsetMama #CreateYourNow #TodaysParent
TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will be able to discuss your specific situation and gain tools and strategies to move you forward.
Live. Love. IMPACT! "One step at a time leads to miles of greatness!"
Subscribe to Create Your Now TV on YouTube.
Listen to Create Your Now on Spotify and Pandora.
Listen to Create Your Now on iHeart Radio. Click here.
The Create Your Now Archives are LIVE!! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive1 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive2 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive3 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive4 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive5 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive6 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive7
Contact me at [email protected]
THE NO FUSS MEAL PLAN
Instagram @CreateYourNow @Kristianne Wargo
Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow
Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow
PERISCOPE USERS!!!
Click here for ANDROID Users / GOOGLE https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=tv.periscope.android
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Read more from Kristianne, a contributor to The Huffington Post, MindBodyGreen, Thrive Global, Addicted2Succes, and She Owns It.
https://addicted2success.com/success-advice/5-things-to-do-while-waiting-for-success-to-manifest-in-your-life/
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/kristianne-wargo/
http://bit.ly/9amHabits
https://journal.thriveglobal.com/how-to-configure-a-sleep-pattern-fit-for-you-d8edd3387eaf#.sniv275c3
https://sheownsit.com/when-failure-is-your-middle-name/
DOMESTIC BEAUTIES (Announcements)
1. Come and let's connect on Facebook - Women Of IMPACT http://facebook.com/groups/thewomenofimpact
2. Create Your Now ~ Your Best Selfie can be heard on iHeart Radio, Spotify, and Pandora!
3. Create Your Now Archive 1 is LIVE! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive1
4. Create Your Now Archive 2 is LIVE! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive2
5. Create Your Now Archive 3 is LIVE! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive3
6. Create Your Now Archive 4 is LIVE! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive4
7. Create Your Now Archive 5 is LIVE! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive5
8. Create Your Now Archive 6 is LIVE! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive6
9. Create Your Now Archive 7 is LIVE! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive7
10. NEW Website! Go check it out and tell me what you think. http://www.createyournow.com
11. Sign Up for The A.I.M. Academy! You will be the first to learn all about it. http://createyournow.com/m-academy-2
12. Schedule a Discovery Call. This is a free 30-45 minute call for those serious about coaching with me.
13. Newsletter and Library: If you desire to get weekly emails, be sure to sign up here so you can stay connected. http://createyournow.com/library
Cover Art by Jenny Hamson
Music by Mandisa - Overcomer
http://www.mandisaofficial.com
Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) 9t One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.
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By Kristianne WargoLabels have a way of crushing who we are. Yet, at the same time, labels are something we chase. Is your child striving to achieve a label?
Labels give you a sense of belonging, feeling welcomed, and worthy. Everyone desires to be loved. It's one of our basic fundamental needs.
Desire to be supported and encourage by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. http://bit.ly/WomenofIMPACT
Look at our children. Our younger generations are raised from the time of conception to meet and/or exceed expectations.
- Weight gain of mom
- Movement within the womb
- Growth chart infancy to at least two years old
- Teething
- First words
- Crawling and walking
- Reading
- Preschool (yes or no)
- Sports
- Grades
- Driver's License
- Varsity and JV Teams (Teams A, B, & C)
- Valedictorian & Salutatorian
- Ivy League vs University vs Community College
- Dating and Marriage
Strides are made to be the best at the beginning. We want our children in the highest percentile, playing on varsity, and attending one of the most sought after colleges.
Now I understand how some of this stuff is most certainly vital when it comes to living.
But most of what we look at is pure fluff.
What if you stripped all of this stuff away from your child (besides the health)?
Would you know what to do as their parent?
This is where it gets real! We place our own expectations on our kids, not on purpose, but it just happens.
However, this is where our children begin to learn that labels (better known as placements, report cards, achievements, successes, trophies, awards, failures, and accolades) either help them or push them back.
Instead of allowing labels to define the purpose, direction, and journey of your child, create a "garden" of truth.
The K.I.S.S. ~ Create a "garden" of truth!This can be very challenging, but in all honesty, it doesn't have to be.
- LISTEN. You are called to pay attention to your child. And I'm here to tell you that most parents are not intentionally listening. Parents can get stuck in their own agendas. Your child needs to be heard. So listen!
- COMMIT. How much are you committed to your child and what they are in need of?
- PRESENCE. If your child is going to trust you, you must be present. And not when it's convenient for you. But when they are available.
- MULTIPLY. Take was is truth for your child and multiple their strengths. Of course, he/she can know his/her weaknesses. But it's more about walking in the God-given gifts and trained talents.
- VISION. Vision is commonly set for your own personal and professional life. Have you ever given thought to a vision for your family?
Don't push your child just because you are the parent. Part of being a parent is in the discovery. Enjoy each stage and don't rush what you can't control.
Life is precious. Be aware of what matters most; your child.
"Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!"
#ConfessionsOfAnUpsetMama #CreateYourNow #TodaysParent
TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will be able to discuss your specific situation and gain tools and strategies to move you forward.
Live. Love. IMPACT! "One step at a time leads to miles of greatness!"
Subscribe to Create Your Now TV on YouTube.
Listen to Create Your Now on Spotify and Pandora.
Listen to Create Your Now on iHeart Radio. Click here.
The Create Your Now Archives are LIVE!! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive1 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive2 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive3 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive4 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive5 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive6 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive7
Contact me at [email protected]
THE NO FUSS MEAL PLAN
Instagram @CreateYourNow @Kristianne Wargo
Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow
Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow
PERISCOPE USERS!!!
Click here for ANDROID Users / GOOGLE https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=tv.periscope.android
Click here for APPLE Users https://itunes.apple.com/app/id972909677
Read more from Kristianne, a contributor to The Huffington Post, MindBodyGreen, Thrive Global, Addicted2Succes, and She Owns It.
https://addicted2success.com/success-advice/5-things-to-do-while-waiting-for-success-to-manifest-in-your-life/
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/kristianne-wargo/
http://bit.ly/9amHabits
https://journal.thriveglobal.com/how-to-configure-a-sleep-pattern-fit-for-you-d8edd3387eaf#.sniv275c3
https://sheownsit.com/when-failure-is-your-middle-name/
DOMESTIC BEAUTIES (Announcements)
1. Come and let's connect on Facebook - Women Of IMPACT http://facebook.com/groups/thewomenofimpact
2. Create Your Now ~ Your Best Selfie can be heard on iHeart Radio, Spotify, and Pandora!
3. Create Your Now Archive 1 is LIVE! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive1
4. Create Your Now Archive 2 is LIVE! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive2
5. Create Your Now Archive 3 is LIVE! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive3
6. Create Your Now Archive 4 is LIVE! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive4
7. Create Your Now Archive 5 is LIVE! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive5
8. Create Your Now Archive 6 is LIVE! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive6
9. Create Your Now Archive 7 is LIVE! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive7
10. NEW Website! Go check it out and tell me what you think. http://www.createyournow.com
11. Sign Up for The A.I.M. Academy! You will be the first to learn all about it. http://createyournow.com/m-academy-2
12. Schedule a Discovery Call. This is a free 30-45 minute call for those serious about coaching with me.
13. Newsletter and Library: If you desire to get weekly emails, be sure to sign up here so you can stay connected. http://createyournow.com/library
Cover Art by Jenny Hamson
Music by Mandisa - Overcomer
http://www.mandisaofficial.com
Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) 9t One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.