Real World Peaceful Parenting

221: Boundaries & Pushback: Why Resistance Is Your Child's Job (And How to Stay Calm)


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On today’s episode of Real World Peaceful Parenting, Lisa Smith is back with part two of the Boundaries Workshop series. This time, we’re diving into what happens after you set and enforce a limit — the inevitable pushback from your child. Whether you’re raising a tiny negotiator, a master arguer, or a strong-willed soul who seems to challenge everything, this episode will help you reframe their resistance and respond with calm confidence. Spoiler: that pushback? It’s not a problem — it’s a sign you’re doing something right.

Tune into this week’s episode for a powerful mindset shift and practical tools to help you stay steady when your child tests the boundaries.


What You'll Learn:

  • Why your child’s pushback is developmental, not personal
  • How to reframe resistance as a hidden compliment to your parenting
  • The difference between healthy pushback and true disrespect
  • What limit-testing looks like at different developmental stages
  • How to hold boundaries with kindness and firmness (with age-specific examples)
  • Why staying calm + consistent builds your child’s long-term security and confidence
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Real World Peaceful ParentingBy Lisa Smith