Real World Peaceful Parenting

226: The Yelling Guilt Loop—and How to Get Out of It


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Do you ever feel like your kids won’t listen unless you yell? You’re not alone—and you’re not failing. In this powerful episode, Lisa Smith breaks down what’s really going on when kids don’t listen and why yelling doesn’t work (even if it feels like the only option in the moment). She shares a better path—one rooted in connection, emotional regulation, and respectful communication. Plus, Lisa invites you to her free 3-day live challenge: Get Your Kids to Listen Without Yelling or Giving In.


What You'll Learn:

  • Why kids often don’t listen—and how their nervous system plays a role
  • What yelling really signals (for you and for your child)
  • How to pause and regulate before the volcano erupts
  • The importance of connection before giving directions
  • What to say instead of yelling when you're frustrated
  • How to shift from control and compliance to connection and cooperation
...more
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Real World Peaceful ParentingBy Lisa Smith