In this episode, we dive into a conversation Derrick had with a friend who felt like he just wasn’t on the radar with women—and how that used to resonate with both of us. Together, we unpack the idea that attraction isn’t a formula—it’s subjective. There’s no one-size-fits-all blueprint. We share our own stories of chasing validation, feeling “not enough,” and how we both shifted from a mindset of lack to one rooted in self-worth. If you’ve ever questioned what makes you attractive or felt like you were doing something wrong, this one’s for you.