In this episode of Season 2, we unpack the four core limiting beliefs that hold us back from reaching out goals.
Key Takeaways
- Our mindsets and beliefs have immense power to lead us towards our goals or derail us
- The 4 core mindset limiting beliefs are: overwhelm, perfectionism, not feeling enough, and comfort/busyness
- Use the ABC (Activating event, Belief, Consequence) model to understand how beliefs influence emotions/behaviors
- The key is recognizing limiting beliefs, pausing before reacting, and choosing an empowered response
Topics
The Power of Mindset
- Mindset is the #1 factor in achieving goals
- Beliefs can propel us forward or sabotage our efforts
- We often have learned self-limiting beliefs that hold us back
The 4 Core Mindset Blocks
- The overwhelm story: "I don't know where to start"
- The perfectionist story: "It's not perfect yet, I'm afraid to fail"
- The "not enough" story: Doubting capabilities and worth
- The comfort story: "I'm too busy, I don't have time"
Using the ABC Model
- A = Activating event (e.g. client request)
- B = Belief/inner talk track (e.g. "I'm incompetent")
- C = Consequence/behavior (e.g. overworking, missing plans)
- Understand this cycle to intercept and change consequences
Hitting Pause
- When triggered, pause before reacting from old beliefs
- Take a break, re-evaluate from a calmer mindset
- Decide on an empowered response aligned with your values