Poets got it all wrong: falling in love is easy; staying in love is the difficult part. According to most psychologists “the average lifespan of a romantic obsession is two years.” Afterward, as most married people know, it’s all just routine. 

The reason for this is simple: the physiological part of love hormones, infatuation, the need to be in someone’s company naturally fades with time. And if you want to transform this in-love experience into something bigger that is, lifelong real love  you need to learn to communicate your feelings with your partner.

Achieving this is synonymous with mastering your partner's love language.