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Being good friends is easy. But being married is quite the opposite. Have a marriage that sizzles as you learn how to become your spouse's soul mate.
Many people are going to grumble with the simple fact that soul mates are not created; they are found.
Desire to be supported and encourage by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. http://bit.ly/WomenofIMPACT
But today, I want you to look at being a soul mate in a different way.
What if soul mates were created? What if you could become your spouse's soul mate? How would that impact your marriage?
- Fewer arguments, deeper understanding
- Less confusion, more compatibility
- Fewer complaints, greater compassion
If you were to take a poll as to how people view marriage and soul mates, they would describe it as two people who are "built" for one another coming together to do life.
However, this way of thinking is so narrow-minded for what marriage is. Marriage is the coming together of two people who are willing to do the work to get to know each other at the deepest levels and do life together.
It's not about the false expectations of you are who you are; no one has to change, and we are now soul mates.
That's not real life, and that's not a great marriage. Our incredible marriage that my husband and I have now came at the cost of almost losing each other in a divorce. Yes, that's our story; a roller-coaster that led us to become soul mates.
So you, too, can become your spouse's soul mate. But it means doing what everyone says is impossible.
The K.I.S.S. ~ Do what's impossible!A fantastic marriage (or whatever adjective you want to use to describe an incredible marriage) doesn't come easy. First, you have to be willing to do the work daily and do what's impossible.
- Compassion, not compatibility. If you and your spouse took a test, you would not match up in many categories. And this is good! You want to be who God created you to be, as so should your spouse. But want you want to focus on is compassion, not compatibility. Marriage is not trying to be exactly alike, but to embrace the differences with compassion, therefore supporting the differences.
- Listen more than you argue. You are going to disagree. In fact, you are going to even question at times if you married the right person. To draw closer to your spouse, you need to listen more so you can hear your spouse's heart and head. What is going on upstairs really does matter. But if you keep trying to convince him/her to be like you, the only thing that will grow deeper is friction.
- Joy-filled versus happiness-driven. Joy is discovered not through your spouse, but through God and your personal walk with Him. However, it's easy to use joy and happiness interchangeably. If you think your spouse is going to make you happy, think again. Your spouse cannot give you everything you need. Only God can. So don't be happiness-driven. Instead, be joy-filled.
Now, this just the beginning of the simple things in marriage. The real work happens when you choose to love your spouse every day.
"Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!"
#RelationshipBuilders #CreateYourNow #LoveAndMarriage
TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will be able to discuss your specific situation and gain tools and strategies to move you forward.
Live. Love. IMPACT! "One step at a time leads to miles of greatness!"
Subscribe to Create Your Now TV on YouTube.
Listen to Create Your Now on Spotify and Pandora.
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The Create Your Now Archives are LIVE!! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive1 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive2 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive3 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive4 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive5 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive6 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive7
Contact me at [email protected]
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Read more from Kristianne, a contributor to The Huffington Post, MindBodyGreen, Thrive Global, Addicted2Succes, and She Owns It.
https://addicted2success.com/success-advice/5-things-to-do-while-waiting-for-success-to-manifest-in-your-life/
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/kristianne-wargo/
http://bit.ly/9amHabits
https://journal.thriveglobal.com/how-to-configure-a-sleep-pattern-fit-for-you-d8edd3387eaf#.sniv275c3
https://sheownsit.com/when-failure-is-your-middle-name/
DOMESTIC BEAUTIES (Announcements)
1. Come and let's connect on Facebook - Women Of IMPACT http://facebook.com/groups/thewomenofimpact
2. Create Your Now ~ Your Best Selfie can be heard on iHeart Radio, Spotify, and Pandora!
3. Create Your Now Archive 1 is LIVE! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive1
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10. NEW Website! Go check it out and tell me what you think. http://www.createyournow.com
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12. Schedule a Discovery Call. This is a free 30-45 minute call for those serious about coaching with me.
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Cover Art by Jenny Hamson
Music by Mandisa - Overcomer
http://www.mandisaofficial.com
Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) 9t One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.
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By Kristianne WargoBeing good friends is easy. But being married is quite the opposite. Have a marriage that sizzles as you learn how to become your spouse's soul mate.
Many people are going to grumble with the simple fact that soul mates are not created; they are found.
Desire to be supported and encourage by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. http://bit.ly/WomenofIMPACT
But today, I want you to look at being a soul mate in a different way.
What if soul mates were created? What if you could become your spouse's soul mate? How would that impact your marriage?
- Fewer arguments, deeper understanding
- Less confusion, more compatibility
- Fewer complaints, greater compassion
If you were to take a poll as to how people view marriage and soul mates, they would describe it as two people who are "built" for one another coming together to do life.
However, this way of thinking is so narrow-minded for what marriage is. Marriage is the coming together of two people who are willing to do the work to get to know each other at the deepest levels and do life together.
It's not about the false expectations of you are who you are; no one has to change, and we are now soul mates.
That's not real life, and that's not a great marriage. Our incredible marriage that my husband and I have now came at the cost of almost losing each other in a divorce. Yes, that's our story; a roller-coaster that led us to become soul mates.
So you, too, can become your spouse's soul mate. But it means doing what everyone says is impossible.
The K.I.S.S. ~ Do what's impossible!A fantastic marriage (or whatever adjective you want to use to describe an incredible marriage) doesn't come easy. First, you have to be willing to do the work daily and do what's impossible.
- Compassion, not compatibility. If you and your spouse took a test, you would not match up in many categories. And this is good! You want to be who God created you to be, as so should your spouse. But want you want to focus on is compassion, not compatibility. Marriage is not trying to be exactly alike, but to embrace the differences with compassion, therefore supporting the differences.
- Listen more than you argue. You are going to disagree. In fact, you are going to even question at times if you married the right person. To draw closer to your spouse, you need to listen more so you can hear your spouse's heart and head. What is going on upstairs really does matter. But if you keep trying to convince him/her to be like you, the only thing that will grow deeper is friction.
- Joy-filled versus happiness-driven. Joy is discovered not through your spouse, but through God and your personal walk with Him. However, it's easy to use joy and happiness interchangeably. If you think your spouse is going to make you happy, think again. Your spouse cannot give you everything you need. Only God can. So don't be happiness-driven. Instead, be joy-filled.
Now, this just the beginning of the simple things in marriage. The real work happens when you choose to love your spouse every day.
"Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!"
#RelationshipBuilders #CreateYourNow #LoveAndMarriage
TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will be able to discuss your specific situation and gain tools and strategies to move you forward.
Live. Love. IMPACT! "One step at a time leads to miles of greatness!"
Subscribe to Create Your Now TV on YouTube.
Listen to Create Your Now on Spotify and Pandora.
Listen to Create Your Now on iHeart Radio. Click here.
The Create Your Now Archives are LIVE!! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive1 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive2 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive3 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive4 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive5 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive6 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive7
Contact me at [email protected]
THE NO FUSS MEAL PLAN
Instagram @CreateYourNow @Kristianne Wargo
Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow
Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow
PERISCOPE USERS!!!
Click here for ANDROID Users / GOOGLE https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=tv.periscope.android
Click here for APPLE Users https://itunes.apple.com/app/id972909677
Read more from Kristianne, a contributor to The Huffington Post, MindBodyGreen, Thrive Global, Addicted2Succes, and She Owns It.
https://addicted2success.com/success-advice/5-things-to-do-while-waiting-for-success-to-manifest-in-your-life/
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/kristianne-wargo/
http://bit.ly/9amHabits
https://journal.thriveglobal.com/how-to-configure-a-sleep-pattern-fit-for-you-d8edd3387eaf#.sniv275c3
https://sheownsit.com/when-failure-is-your-middle-name/
DOMESTIC BEAUTIES (Announcements)
1. Come and let's connect on Facebook - Women Of IMPACT http://facebook.com/groups/thewomenofimpact
2. Create Your Now ~ Your Best Selfie can be heard on iHeart Radio, Spotify, and Pandora!
3. Create Your Now Archive 1 is LIVE! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive1
4. Create Your Now Archive 2 is LIVE! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive2
5. Create Your Now Archive 3 is LIVE! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive3
6. Create Your Now Archive 4 is LIVE! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive4
7. Create Your Now Archive 5 is LIVE! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive5
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9. Create Your Now Archive 7 is LIVE! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive7
10. NEW Website! Go check it out and tell me what you think. http://www.createyournow.com
11. Sign Up for The A.I.M. Academy! You will be the first to learn all about it. http://createyournow.com/m-academy-2
12. Schedule a Discovery Call. This is a free 30-45 minute call for those serious about coaching with me.
13. Newsletter and Library: If you desire to get weekly emails, be sure to sign up here so you can stay connected. http://createyournow.com/library
Cover Art by Jenny Hamson
Music by Mandisa - Overcomer
http://www.mandisaofficial.com
Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) 9t One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.