We’re excited to share this interview with Devon and Aaron Evans. Devon is a sex-positive life coach and host of the F*ck Like a Woman podcast, which we recently appeared on. Devon and Aaron have been married for 10 years, and we love the intentionality they bring to their marriage. In this episode, they share so many valuable lessons with their story in a fun, honest way. We cover A LOT in this conversation, so if you’re married (or just interested in marriage) you will certainly find something relevant in this episode.

Topics Covered:

Overcoming challenges in early marriage, including guilt, shame and resentment

Managing “Oh Shit” moments in marriage

Moving through different seasons of a relationship, including separation

Valuing individuality within the relationship and healing from codependency   

How to have healthy dialogue that doesn’t blame the other partner

Identifying Good Sex vs Bad Sex

The harmful effects of religious shame on sexual desire

The challenges of vulnerability and putting your story out into the world

Sex education and open communication with children

Moving beyond certainty and embracing mystery within marriage

Resources:

Our Interview on the F*ck Like a Woman Podcast

Thanks for listening!