I decided to like me, I decided to love me, I decided to learn what I liked and who I am, where, then, the other sex was, they were, like, "Who is this guy? I want to get to know him, um, he appears to be daunting, he appears to have fun with life," and so that was definitely a lesson for me, so you definitely have to be in a position to like and love yourself before expecting others to like and love you at the level you feel you deserve.