Summary

Joey Guzman, a licensed therapist specializing in fertility, IVF, and surrogacy counseling, shares his personal journey of building a family through surrogacy and egg donation. He discusses the importance of open communication, setting expectations, and navigating the emotional complexities of the process. Joey emphasizes the need for informed decision-making, including considerations for donor selection, single vs. double embryo transfer, and the relational dynamics with surrogates. He also highlights the role of mental health providers in providing education, support, and empathy to intended parents and surrogates throughout their journey.

Takeaways

Open communication and setting expectations are crucial when involving family members in the surrogacy and egg donation process.

Informed decision-making is essential, including considerations for donor selection, single vs. double embryo transfer, and the relational dynamics with surrogates.

Mental health providers play a vital role in providing education, support, and empathy to intended parents and surrogates throughout their journey.

The surrogacy process can be emotionally challenging, and having a strong support system is important for both intended parents and surrogates.

Empathy and understanding are key in navigating the complexities and emotions involved in building a family through surrogacy and egg donation.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Personal Journey

03:21 Donor Selection and Embryo Creation

07:22 Navigating Surrogate Selection

10:43 The Role of Mental Health Providers

23:07 Supporting Surrogates and Donors

25:26 Understanding Double Embryo Transfer

29:21 Personal Experience and Emotional Challenges

35:28 Importance of Support and Empathy

Sound Bites

"It is important to have a support system. It is important for you to be able to express yourself and to have your people there because you need people to help you with this."

"There's more to think about than just the thought of we wanna be parents and I wanna have a baby and I wanna transfer two embryos."

"You nearly made me cry. That must've been so tough. I'm really sorry that you went through that."

Keywords

fertility, IVF, surrogacy, counseling, donor selection, embryo transfer, mental health, support, empathy