In this episode of The White Hatter: Parenting in an Online World, titled "When Tragedy Strikes: A Hard Look at Parenting in the Age of Technology", we confront the heartbreaking reality of a 10-year-old girl lured and abducted through platforms like Discord and Roblox. While the predator is solely to blame for the crime, we take a deeper look at the broader systems at play such as Big Tech, weak legislation, and yes, the crucial role of parental oversight. This isn’t about blame, it’s about responsibility. We explore how digital safety depends on a three-part foundation: industry accountability, government regulation, and, most importantly, active, informed parenting. Through straight talk, real examples, and actionable advice, we offer a path forward for families navigating our always-on, always-connected world. If you're ready for an honest conversation that goes beyond headlines, let’s get into it.