Text: Proverbs 28:23 (ESV)

23 Whoever rebukes a man will afterward find more favor

than he who flatters with his tongue.

A REBUKE MAY GAIN FAVOR

If we genuinely "love" a person, we do care for his well-being, don’t we? And this may mean speaking uncomfortable truths in direct, loving ways at times. (Eph 4:15). A "reproof" or "rebuke" is a strong, bold or direct confrontation. The wise would listen to correction and advice objectively. (Prov 3:11; 10:17; 15:31) They will appreciate the guidance given by a true friend (Prov 17:10; 27:5, 6, 17). Telling the truth gains one more respect. Flattery is not a proof of true love and concern. (Prov 19:1; 24:26; 26:24, 28). It’s giving false assurance. It is wrong and is not loving (Prov 13:24; Jas 5:20).

In his letter to the Galatians, the apostle Paul explains how a loving brother should show love to an erring brother. He is going restore a brother who is caught in sin and error in an effective way He writes: "Brothers, if anyone is caught in any transgression, you who are spiritual should restore him in a spirit of gentleness. Keep watch on yourself, lest you too be tempted" (Gal 6:1). One of the major responsibilities of a pastor or elder is to reprove and rebuke as necessary (2 Tim 2:24–26). The church leader whose preaching or counsel is designed simply to make people feel good about themselves is not fulfilling his responsibility. He is not truly "loving" toward others.

Listen and FOLLOW us on our podcast

-------------------------

Visit and FOLLOW Gospel Light Filipino on YouTube, Facebook and Instagram