What happens when your life doesn’t unfold in the order you expected?

In this episode of Ego Was Here, Laura Behnke shares her experience of building a successful career while quietly questioning her timing in life. Laura spent 16 years as a TV sports anchor and reporter, reaching professional milestones many people aspire to. And yet, at 35, she had never been in a relationship and often felt out of sync with where she thought she should be.

This conversation explores what it’s like to be doing well on the outside while feeling behind on the inside. We talk about societal expectations around relationships and success, the pressure of timelines, and how comparison can shape the way we see ourselves. Laura reflects on letting go of the idea that life has a correct order, and what changed when she allowed herself to imagine a future that looked different from the one she had planned.

This episode isn’t about advice or fixing yourself. It’s about recognizing the quiet tension many people carry when their life doesn’t match the milestones they were taught to expect, and finding space to live more honestly within that reality.