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27. 3 Essential Skills Every Financial Advisor Needs to Master Client Psychology


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Season 2 is officially here! In this Season 2 kickoff, host Ashley Quamme, licensed therapist and financial behavior specialist reveals the three essential psychological skills that separate good advisors from great ones. Drawing from behavioral finance research, therapeutic communication techniques, and real client scenarios, Ashley demonstrates how mastering strategic listening, identifying emotional triggers, and creating psychological safety transforms not just client relationships, but business outcomes. Whether you're navigating emotional client meetings or looking to deepen discovery conversations, this episode provides the foundational framework for everything we'll explore throughout Season 2.

Key Takeaways:

  1. Move beyond traditional active listening to "strategic listening"—observing body language, energy shifts, tone changes, and what clients aren't saying. Research shows professionals trained in nonverbal sensitivity have significantly better client relationships. Start with whole-body check-ins and resist the "righting reflex" to gather complete information about your client's true experience.
  2. Learn to identify when clients shift from analytical to emotional decision-making mode. Watch for sudden decision pattern changes, disproportionate responses, and topic avoidance. Use "decision temperature checks" and develop pause phrases to help clients integrate feelings with rational analysis for better outcomes.
  3. Establish conditions where clients feel safe sharing real financial fears, mistakes, and dreams. Use collaborative language, normalize struggles, and validate concerns before offering solutions. When clients feel psychologically safe, they become more open, follow through on recommendations, and stay engaged during difficult conversations.

Resources and Host Information:

  • Planning & Beyond Podcast 
  • Ashley Quamme on LinkedIn 
  • Beyond the Plan® 
  • Weekly Newsletter 

Take Action:

  1. Implement Strategic Listening This Week: In your next 2-3 client meetings, practice whole-body check-ins and look for moments when words don't match body language or tone. 
  2. Case Consultation Interest: Email [email protected] with "Case Consultation Interest" in the subject line to discuss participating in upcoming episodes.
  3. Help Fellow Advisors Grow: Leave us a review and share this episode with colleagues who want to deepen their client relationships beyond the numbers.

Connect with Host Ashley Quamme:

  • Podcast Website: Planning & Beyond
  • LinkedIn: Ashley Quamme - Licensed Therapist & Financial Behavior Specialist

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