We’ve all heard this advice, but it’s so hard to follow: stop worrying about other people’s actions. Someone left you? Let them. Someone ghosted you? Let them. We daters waste so much time trying to get others to act a certain way, live up to our standards, jump through specific hoops, or color within the imaginary lines we draw for ourselves. Today we’re covering how to recover from a breakup, move on from a toxic situation, and choose the very best version of life for ourselves. It’s time we listen to the advice of the great Ariana Grande: “Thank u, next.”