I’ve been watching the Kevin Spacey documentary, and it’s grotesque in a way I hadn’t imagined. He is at once abusive and sexually exploitative, with decades worth of mistreatment and grooming under his belt, and also simply a deeply traumatized young boy.

While watching Spacey Unmasked, memories of my own semi-troubling ‘fling’ with a famous gay man came rushing back, and I felt a whole assortment of good and bad and shame and confusion.

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