Do you remember when you used to feel unshakeable? When challenges didn't completely drain you and you had energy left for your family after dealing with life's chaos?

In this episode, I break down what happened to that version of you and how to get it back.

Most men today were conditioned to only perform when conditions are perfect - when you're motivated, well-rested, and everything's going smoothly. But life doesn't test you when you're fresh and ready. It tests you when you get home from a 12-hour day, your car needs $2,000 in repairs, the mortgage is due tomorrow, and your family is looking to you to hold it together.

In This Episode, You'll Learn:

• Why the cultural shift starting in the 1960s created men who only succeed when comfortable
• The hard truth about choosing comfort over competence your entire life
• Why your feelings about a situation don't change what the situation requires
• How to lead with purpose instead of emotion
• What the Bible says about strength through trials in James Chapter 1
• The difference between boys who need perfect conditions and men who create success despite chaos

Your family doesn't need you to feel motivated to fix the problem. They need you to fix the problem. Your trials aren't happening to break you down - they're happening to build you up into the man your family needs.

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