Byron's Loom- Weaving relationships through Braver Conversations

3-17-25 Sue Lani and Byron's weekly summary


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Quick recap

Byron and Sue Lani discussed their recent learning experiences, particularly focusing on their podcast adventure and the importance of understanding different perspectives. Sue Lani also attended a town hall meeting in Ritzville, Adams County, where she observed a predominantly non-local crowd from Spokane County, and expressed her concern about the media's portrayal of such events. The conversation also touched on the importance of maintaining neutrality and objectivity in their conversations, the difference between reading someone's work and having a direct conversation with them, and the changing nature of conversations on social media.

Learning From Podcast and Communication

Byron and Sue discussed their recent learning experiences, particularly focusing on their podcast adventure. Sue Lani expressed her growing understanding of the other side's point of view, which she found healthy. Byron shared his realization that while he and Sue Lani were speaking English, they were perhaps speaking different dialects, necessitating them to slow down and unpack different points of view to stay connected and understand each other better.

Non-Local Crowd Dominates Town Hall

Sue Lani attended a town hall meeting in Ritzville, Adams County, where she observed a predominantly non-local crowd from Spokane County, who were not the primary voters for Trump. The meeting was characterized by shouting matches and unproductive discussions. Sue noted that the attendees were mostly progressive, with only one question related to agriculture. She also pointed out that the attendees were not representative of the local population, with only about 2% being from Adams County. Sue expressed her concern about the media's portrayal of such events, emphasizing the need for accurate representation of the attendees' demographics.

Building Neutrality and Objectivity in Conversations

Sue Lani and Byron discussed their experiences and challenges in maintaining neutrality and objectivity in their conversations. Byron shared his progress in building muscle to listen to opposing views and unpack his own beliefs. They also discussed the importance of seeking more information on topics they are less familiar with, such as Christian nationalism and trans conversations. Sue acknowledged her own blind spots and the need to learn more about certain issues. They agreed to continue their discussions and collaborations, with Kaylee playing a key role in tackling certain topics.

Direct Communication vs. Reading Work

Byron and Sue Lani discussed the difference between reading someone's work and having a direct conversation with them. Byron noted that reading someone's work can feel like a monologue, while direct communication is more of a dialogue. Sue agreed, suggesting that knowing the person can make it easier to disagree without demonizing them. They also experienced some technical difficulties during their conversation.

Twitter's Changing Nature and Impact

Byron and Sue Lani discussed their differing views on social media, particularly Twitter (X). Sue shared her experience of Twitter (X) becoming a less hostile environment for her, while Byron expressed his concerns about the impact of Elon Musk's changes on the platform. They also touched on the topic of online trolls and the changing nature of conversations on social media.

Understanding Knowledge and Biases in Discussions

Byron and Sue Lani discussed the importance of understanding one's own knowledge and biases when engaging in discussions. Byron shared his negative bias towards Elon Musk and his platform X due to Musk's recent statement about empathy being a sin. Sue emphasized the need to separate what one knows and doesn't know about a topic and to consider the context of statements before reacting. They both agreed on the importance of being fair and cautious when interpreting quotes, regardless of the source.



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Byron's Loom- Weaving relationships through Braver ConversationsBy Byron Odion