The more you do hard things, the easier it becomes to do hard things. Everyone is imperfect and no one is lucky or without struggle. Go after your dreams - stop settling for mundane. Communicating our needs and being more self-expressed to lead more fulfilled and honest lives. We can all make a difference, but you have to choose WHAT matters to you, and then take action.  Taking compliments - not playing small or being modest anymore. Compliment yourself. Teach yourself that it's okay to love yourself. Recovery by Russell Brand - being of service to others improves our sense of self-worth (and gets you out of your heard for a minute usually). The Little Book of Lykke by Meik Weiking - the importance of intergenerational relationships. Give compliments and stop letting fear hold you back from making connections with people.

Abby Wombach's Wolfpack - we are all leaders. We CAN and will all make a difference.