3 Dating or Life tips

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I’m writing more about dating since you fuckers seem to love this subject. At least I have a lot of shit from my past that I can write about on this subject.

Getting a date can be easy for some and hard for many. There are so many damn factors involved. I will try to break it down as simply as possible.

I will be as general as I can in order to give a general feel as to what it takes to start attracting the ladies.

Although I have been out of the playing field for a while,  I believe these tips are universally accepted.

I encourage you to adopt them if you are having any problems with the ladies and ESPECIALLY if you have not cultivated them as habit in your life.

#1 Be confident.

How the hell can you get confidence? That is a very vague question in itself.

I think you can cultivate confidence in a few ways. You have to do something you are good and passionate about. Even if it means crushing kids at your first person shooter, or perhaps taking advantage of people of lower IQ at trivia night.

Being confident in one area of your life will spill over into other areas of your life.

It doesn’t mean you don’t have to put in work. Sometimes working hard at something brings confidence later. That pertains to having goals.

You can expect to be a master beer maker with one session. I have been brewing for years and am discovering how much I DON’T know after all of this time.

I am still confident in my brewing abilities though and growing with it daily. I work for it, but I love it.

What does confidence have to do with dating? A lot. You need to be confident in order to ask a girl out, meet up with a girl, or even make a move on her.

So get confidence daily. Play to your strengths and work at confidence. Get knowledge and play. If you get the feel for what confidence is, you up your chances of landing the girl of your dreams…or at least trying.

AND YES, you will get more confidence in dating by dating more.

#2 Learn to take rejection lightly

Women fend men off on a daily basis like recruiters going after a top athletic prospect.

And they usually do this daily, whether they are conscious of the fact or not.

On the flip side, if you were a decent looking guy working at an all single female mid-50’s nursing home since your late teens until now, you would likely get flirted with more. That is how it is kind of like for an attractive female; daily flirtation but from men of all ages.

Where do you come into play with this? Well, let’s just say you may likely fit into the category of being brushed off.

You have to be okay with that.

Understand that you have preferences, she has preferences and unless you fit a majority of what she is looking for, or you are a Don Juan type, it may not work out.

You will likely face a ton of rejection. I think the experience of rejection will only help you get clarity onto what you want. So keep going, get rejected and embrace it. Don’t get frustrated, just learn from it.

All great people have faced failure and rejection.

#3 Don’t give up

This one kind of ties in with accepting and embracing rejection. I realize these three tips are cliche and sound super simple, but bear with me.

KEEP IN MIND, I have been through and practice all of these, whether it’s in dating or LIFE.

So yeah, when the girl of your dreams (that probably doesn’t even know you) brushes you off, learn from it and move on.

This doesn’t mean to persist with HER. There is something called “stalking” that can get you in serious trouble with the law.

I mean, learn to maybe 1) not fall in love so quick,