In this episode we cover:

Is the ICK keeping you single? Do you feel like "there are no good men"? The “ICK” is seriously limiting your dating pool. The ICK is a bodily response that’s warning you AWAY from a partner. According to Kat, it’s the BIGGEST impediment to women having happy relationships.

🎤Asking questions like:

How is the ICK NOT working for you?

What was Lilly’s ICK?

How can you deal with your ICKs?

🌟 A Kat Perspective:

Main Insight: Stewing on an ICK can be enlightening!

Additional Insight: The ICK highlights an underlying value that we hold and once identified is such a help in focusing in what we want in a life partner. 

🌼 A Lilly’s Perspective:

Main Insight: Remember, the ICK may not be the whole story. 

Additional Insight: We do love to box (hello, I love to box), but with the ‘ick’ trending, have we stopped thinking with a nuanced approach and are we SERIOUSLY ruling out some laughter from our relationships?

✨ The Perfect Quote: 

"If laughter is what makes us human, then humour is a necessary tie that binds us to one another and reminds us that our relationships are designed to bring joy." - Zach Brittle on the Gottman Blog⁠

🎁 A Goodie to Takeaway:

Can you list your five biggest ICK moments and the underlying values they may be pointing you to? How can this knowledge help you SEE your Mr Right?

📚 Resources Hello Missy Loves for Love:

How to Get a Date Worth Keeping, Henry Cloud

The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work: A Practical Guide from the Country's Foremost Relationship Expert - John Gottman and Nan Silver

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