Are we supposed to control who our children turn out to be? What demands do others put on us . . . and do we put on ourselves? An honest discussion about a parenting talk, a shame spiral, and a few lightbulb moments.

“If I’m really honest with myself, I have to say I’d have more alignment with my partner and be a more intentional parent if I put less intentional energy into my work. But I’m not willing to make that trade off right now.”