In this episode of Dating Yapps, my amazing guest Julie gets real about her rollercoaster of a dating journey. We’re diving deep into the messy, beautiful complexities of love, heartbreak, and the emotional baggage we sometimes have to unpack along the way. Julie opens up about navigating a relationship with a guy who wasn’t exactly forthcoming about some pretty big parts of his life (yikes, right?).

We’re chatting about the lessons she learned, why being true to yourself is non-negotiable, and the danger of falling into the trap of being the ‘chill girl’—because, spoiler alert, suppressing your feelings isn’t cute! This one’s honest, juicy, and full of wisdom you’ll want to carry into your own dating adventures

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Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Friendship Background

02:37 Julie’s Dating Journey Begins

06:42 The Chill Girl Trap

07:57 Navigating Relationship Dynamics

10:15 The Birthday Revelation

13:52 Anxiety and Reflection

15:15 Meeting the Family and Uncovering Truths

18:04 Navigating Emotional Turmoil in Relationships

20:02 Unpacking Life Experiences and Red Flags

22:36 The Impact of Anxiety on Daily Life

25:40 The Breaking Point: Confronting the Truth

29:51 Revelations of Lies and Deception

33:27 Struggling with Attachment and Reality

36:32 Traveling Together: A Turning Point

39:06 Navigating Grief and Support

41:06 The Struggles of a Troubled Relationship

42:26 Therapy and Communication Challenges

44:15 Red Flags and Relationship Dynamics

47:28 The Breakup and Its Aftermath

50:25 Self-Discovery and Healing

55:34 Lessons Learned and Moving Forward