Excuses to Connect

30: Being Unapologetically You with Alif Huq

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Alif Huq is actually a mutual friend of one of the previous podcast guests, Ahmad Jabbir from Episode 9. He is a Digital Marketing Automation Specialist, and he excels in this role because of his ability to connect and network. However, he was once painfully shy and awkward. In this episode, he shares many stories that are embarrassing, emotional, and about embracing himself fully as the person he is.

Highlights & Takeaways
  • The ultimate meaning of life is being “so you” that people feel inspired and want to be themselves.
  • People who are more strategically inclined in social situations are people who know who can adjust their level of energy to the person they’re talking with. What makes you a social ninja is being adaptable.
  • The story of Alif walking home from school and praying that the person in front him didn’t turn around, because that meant Alif had to chat and he didn’t know how to hold a conversation.
  • How Alif’s attitude shifted from trying to be popular, to wanting to get to know others, and now focusing on how connecting with others helps get more meaning in his life.
  • Hurt people hurt other people - Alif’s perspective on not blaming others, and trying to break the cycle of hurt.
  • How in South Asian culture, people don’t normally discuss their emotions, but he witnessed an instance at a wedding where someone crossed that wall, and instead of being shamed, they were able to accept each other unconditionally.
    • Resources Mentioned
    • Contact Alif: Instagram | LinkedIn
    • “The Way of the Superior Man” by David Deida

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