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So much tension in our relationships comes from assuming there’s a “right” way to think, plan, respond, or do life. In this episode, Cortney explores how difference—when misunderstood—can feel like failure, but when named honestly, becomes an invitation to grace.

In this episode, you’ll hear:

• Why we so easily confuse difference with “doing it wrong”
• A real-life story of navigating different wiring as a parent
• How understanding difference can release shame and frustration
• Why unity was never meant to look like sameness
• How curiosity can replace judgment in everyday relationships

Rather than offering a framework or fixing strategy, this episode creates space to see yourself—and others—more clearly and compassionately.

Reflection Questions

• Where do I feel pressure to do things the “right” way?
• Who do I tend to judge (including myself) for being different?
• What might someone else be paying attention to that I’m not?

Resources Mentioned

• Marriage Retreat Toolkit – A DIY retreat experience to help couples reflect, dream, and better understand their unique wiring: https://coffeechatsandyogamats.thrivecart.com/marriage-retreat-tk/
• God-Given Gifts Chat – A free 1:1 Voxer conversation to explore your God-given gifts and next steps: coffeechatsandyogamats.com/giftchat

Wondering what your God-given gifts actually are and how to honor them in the middle of real life (not just the highlight reel)? Let’s talk. 💬

The best place to start is a free God-Given Gifts Chat — an audio + text convo inside Voxer (no Zoom required, promise). We’ll:

• Check in on your current season

• Name 1 gift

• Brainstorm 1 simple next step you can take

No pressure. No pretending. Just a grace-filled space to help you get unstuck and move forward with a little more clarity and confidence.

✨Book your God-Given Gifts Chat — or just reply to any email from me with "I'm curious" and I’ll send you the details.

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