Sacred Psychology with Tamara Powell, LMHC

30: The End is the Beginning: Why I Walked Away From My Family


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Growing up in a dysfunctional family, Allison began her attempts to break toxic patterns at an early age.

Her path has lead her through multiple unhealthy relationships, career changes, religious experiences and life as a foster/adoptive parent. While she is still healing from wounds of her childhood, she currently has a life she never thought would exist.

She is now married to her soulmate, mother to three beautiful adopted sons, and helping others through her work as a Chiropractic Neurologist.

In this podversation:
  • Allison's epiphany at age 12
  • "We want to mess them up so they have THEIR problems NOT OUR problems
  • The day Allison decided to cut ties with her family
  • Dynamics of a narcissistic family system (e.g., scapegoat, golden child)
  • Why adult children may still be "obeying" their parents
  • How chiropracty healed many of Allison's somatic symptoms
  • What it was like to live at home as a grown woman trying to finish her degrees
  • The power of the mind-body connection and the illnesses that can result
  • "If there is more than one way to perceive something, choose the way that makes you happier."
  • How Allison and her husband came to adopt their three sons
  • What it was like growing up in the shadow of her mother's stillborn daughter before her
  • The empowerment that comes from realizing there's nothing you can do to make someone love you
  • Dealing with the pushback and victim shaming
  • Love is unconditional but relationships are not

  Follow Allison's journey on her blog.

Additional Resources:
  • The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman
  • Excuse Me Your Life is Waiting by Lynn Grabhorn
  • The Wise Heart by Jack Kornfield

 

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Sacred Psychology with Tamara Powell, LMHCBy Tamara Powell, LMHC