A lot of cross-contamination between this and episode #15: Through Different Lenses. I am never going to be IRL exactly what you think I am just because you know me through this podcast or my IG! The same goes with everyone else in your life. When you ACCEPT that things are the way they are, and they aren’t the way they aren’t, it becomes easier to see them as not good, not bad, just reality, and then you can deal with, and eventually grow to love and appreciate that reality, because you weren’t expecting anyone or anything else.