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32. Compatibility vs. Chemistry


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Compatibility: Interpersonal compatibility or interpersonal matching is the long-term interaction between two or more individuals in terms of the ease and comfort of communication.   Chemistry: is an effortless attraction between two people that can feel magnetic and addictive   Chemistry can be defined as a complex emotional or psychological interaction between two people. It can cause a couple to feel passionate and attracted to one another. On the other hand, compatibility can be described as having an authentic connection with a partner who you admire.   Have I been dating wrong this whole time?   Still on no apps currently... Compatible 1.) Lifestyle: Do you workout, healthy eating, sex, mental connection/self-care... this where build intimacy 2.) Interest: Art/Museums, Musical Taste, Theater, Amusement Parks, Traveling 3.) Goals: Long term aspirations and visions. Thoughts on Family. Values & Morals This doesn't mean upbringing has to be the same. Questions To Ask: 1.) What are you career and personal goals 2.) Where do you want to live in the future 3.) Thoughts on marriage and children 4.) Are they a morning person or night owl   Chemistry (Crazy Cop) | (Initial connections) 1.) Physicality: The way they look.
  1. Ex: Defines Jawline, hands, height, and
2.) Sexual
  1. Kisses, the stroke, the touch, and everything else in between
3.) Emotional: Saying all the right things / everything you want to hear
  1. Confusion, confusion, confusion
  2. Run while you can
  The three major chemical players at work. They are dopamine, oxytocin (oxitosin), and vasopressin. Dopamine: a compound present in the body as a neurotransmitter and a precursor of other substances including epinephrine/adrenaline. Oxytocin: a hormone released by the pituitary gland that causes increased contraction of the uterus during labor and stimulates the ejection of milk into the ducts of the breasts. Vazopressin: a pituitary hormone which acts to promote the retention of water by the kidneys and increase blood pressure. Your heart rate increases when you see someone you like because they're releasing pheromones. Pheromones: a chemical substance produced and released into the environment by an animal, especially a mammal or an insect, affecting the behavior or physiology of others of its species.   You crave interacting with that person since they trigger the dopamine response in your brain. It's essential to have that primal connection with your love interest. That's what sparks the intense chemistry between you and the one you're crushing on. physical, romantic, and intellectual connection. Chemistry can be built in time... Shows like "Married at First Sight" or "Love Is Blind" Learning about compromising... the packaging may not look ideal, but could it be worth it?   ANNOUNCEMENTS

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