The Complete Man Podcast Talksđź—Ł About what to do, and how to behave after you messed up and you want to get her back, Yes getting her back after you funbled, so you messed up and you feel like you did everything wrong and she is using it aginast you. Maybe you probaly cheated or you just did something you knew you went over the top and now she wants nothing to do with you. Relax and Enjoy.