February 16, 2020

32. The Rational Male: Rollo Tomassi

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1 hour 21 minutes

Suzanne talks with Rollo Tomassi, author of The Rational Male.

Rollo is also the author of the Rational Male blog, which is now in its 9th year. He has a one-year old YouTube channel with 34K subscribers and growing and was one of the principle creators of the Red Man Group.

Rollo has been married to his wife for 23 years and has a 21-year-old daughter in college. He lives in Reno, Nevada with anywhere between 2 to 5 greyhounds depending on how many he’s fostering at the time

Rollo’s website is www.therationalmale.com

IN THIS EPISODE:

Feminism has conditioned males to become more feminine, more beta

We live in a global, sexual marketplace which has affected how men and women mate

For women, when looking for a long-term mate, being “alpha” is more about owning your masculinity than about how much money you have, your looks, social status, etc.

The Soulmate Myth: There’s no such thing as the One. The soul mate mentality is not a good way to plan your life

Hypergamy is how women select their mates (mating strategy)

Women’s and men’s sexual market value timeline is not the same (a woman’s SVM tops out around 23. Around 27-30, the realization sinks in that they must trade in their party years and find a mate)

Women tend to find men that are 3-5 years older than they are; men tend to find women between the ages of 22-23 are most attractive

We’re still clinging to equality, or the “clean slate” theory that men and women are the same

Men and women are better together than they are apart

It is impossible for a woman to be as sexual as a man, based on biological factors.

Men’s sexual strategy is unlimited access to unlimited sexuality.

Women have reproductive costs that men don’t have

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February 16, 2020

32. The Rational Male: Rollo Tomassi

Listen Later

1 hour 21 minutes

Suzanne talks with Rollo Tomassi, author of The Rational Male.

Rollo is also the author of the Rational Male blog, which is now in its 9th year. He has a one-year old YouTube channel with 34K subscribers and growing and was one of the principle creators of the Red Man Group.

Rollo has been married to his wife for 23 years and has a 21-year-old daughter in college. He lives in Reno, Nevada with anywhere between 2 to 5 greyhounds depending on how many he’s fostering at the time

Rollo’s website is www.therationalmale.com

IN THIS EPISODE:

Feminism has conditioned males to become more feminine, more beta

We live in a global, sexual marketplace which has affected how men and women mate

For women, when looking for a long-term mate, being “alpha” is more about owning your masculinity than about how much money you have, your looks, social status, etc.

The Soulmate Myth: There’s no such thing as the One. The soul mate mentality is not a good way to plan your life

Hypergamy is how women select their mates (mating strategy)

Women’s and men’s sexual market value timeline is not the same (a woman’s SVM tops out around 23. Around 27-30, the realization sinks in that they must trade in their party years and find a mate)

Women tend to find men that are 3-5 years older than they are; men tend to find women between the ages of 22-23 are most attractive

We’re still clinging to equality, or the “clean slate” theory that men and women are the same

Men and women are better together than they are apart

It is impossible for a woman to be as sexual as a man, based on biological factors.

Men’s sexual strategy is unlimited access to unlimited sexuality.

Women have reproductive costs that men don’t have

Sign up for relationship coaching with Suzanne: https://www.suzannevenker.com/relationship-coaching/

Subscribe to The Suzanne Venker Show: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-suzanne-venker-show/id1471433977

Follow Suzanne on Social Media:

https://twitter.com/SuzanneVenker

https://www.facebook.com/SuzanneVenkerAuthor/

https://www.instagram.com/suzannevenkerauthor/

Buy Women Who Win at Love or The Alpha Female's Guide to Men & Marriage NOW: https://www.amazon.com/Suzanne-Venker/e/B001K7VY7K%3Fref=dbs_a_mng_rwt_scns_share

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